Real Support Real Understanding From One Who has Been There.
You have carried more than most people will ever understand I know that life because I lived it I am Jessica Vyxen retired military and now a Sex and Relationship Advisor dedicated to supporting active duty members veterans and military partners of all genders Whether you are deployed transitioning out in a long distance relationship rebuilding intimacy or dealing with emotional strain you deserve a place where you can talk freely safely and without judgment I understand the lifestyle the pressure the sacrifices and the silence that comes with it And I am here to hold space for you I specialize in navigating relationships during and after service rebuilding emotional or sexual intimacy same sex and opposite sex relationship support communication struggles with partners coping with deployment distance confidence libido changes and desire transition stress mentally emotionally and sexually and processing the things you do not want to burden others with Whether you are a man woman or non binary service member or veteran you are welcome here You are seen You are understood If you need clarity comfort connection or guidance or you simply want a familiar voice who genuinely understands the military lifestyle call me With Jessica Vyxen you are in good hands and in a judgment free space Let us talk through what is weighing on you
My Goals/AdviceMy goals include Helping you rebuild or strengthen intimacy emotionally and physically Guiding you through communication issues with partners Providing clarity during stressful transitions deployments or separations Supporting your confidence libido mental health and self worth Listening deeply so you feel understood validated and respected Offering guidance from someone who truly understands the military lifestyle Whether you are asking a sensitive question working through relationship issues or just need an honest conversation I am here to support you with compassion and experience
My EducationI combine real military lived experience with practical relationship knowledge and ongoing training Certified in Sex and Relationship Coaching Ongoing education in intimacy guidance communication skills and emotional wellness Studied interpersonal psychology and trauma informed support Continuing coursework in couples communication and sexual health Years of hands on advisory experience helping callers with relationship recovery confidence building sexual frustration long distance intimacy emotional connection navigating complex feelings safely My approach is warm informed intuitive and grounded in both training and real life WHY YOU ARE SAFE WITH ME Because I HAVE lived the uniform life Because I HAVE had the hard conversations Because I HAVE seen the toll it takes on relationships and personal confidence Because I genuinely care about helping you feel better lighter and more connected When you call Jessica Vyxen you are calling someone who truly understands you not just as a person but as a service member or veteran
My ExperienceI am not guessing what your life feels like I lived it Before becoming a Sex and Relationship Advisor I served my country and experienced firsthand Long distance and deployment relationships Emotional strain from military schedules and expectations Reintegrating into a relationship after long separations Balancing service responsibilities with personal needs Transitioning back to civilian life The silence and stress many service members carry quietly Navigating intimacy desire and communication after trauma exhaustion or burnout Because of my military background I understand the culture the pressure the emotional weight the sacrifices the challenges in relationships and intimacy the unspoken struggles service members face That’s why people feel instantly comfortable opening up to me they know I get it
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Jessica Vyxen here — retired military. Need real advice? Call me anytime. 📞
