Turn Mistakes Into Maturity (Profile #3197060)
Relationship advice for men who are struggling with heartbreak, loneliness, shame, or regret after things went wrong. This is a place to be heard without judgment, talk honestly about what happened, and get real guidance on how to learn from it, rebuild yourself, and move forward.
My Goals/Advice
To help you see where things went wrong and what you can do to make amends, be it correctly making inner change, living and mingling with your "other" better, or be it that you need help in understanding when too much damage has been done, and the best we an do is improve ourselves and walk away.
My Experience
I have PTSD and have gone through DBT therapy for BPD (borderline personality disorder) I know what it's like to mess up, EPICLY. Sometimes things are fixable, sometimes however we have crossed a line we can never uncross. It takes a lot to be able to recognize the differences and it takes even more to do the correct actions, like therapy, self change, and resisting the urge to make things right again instantly. It doesn't work that way I promise. It comes from patients, time, and taking the right steps to prove you are not who you were. Both to yourself and to any partners you may have.
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